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Annie~Joy writes: There Is Fear In Loving• The Ladies Reports. Part 2 #BeInspired

Young lady try and know certain facts about you and don't avail yourself to be harmed. What you are in is DATING and not marriage. Get smart and wise up. Dating should help you gain self-confidence. The gentleman doesn't own you yet because there is no bond. Why do you hear him when he screams for SEX? Do you know when the pride is lost, it can't be restored even when it’s secondary as some say? 

It becomes so when you got hurt and have decided not to give in again so your vital part becomes a little closed. Then it is termed as SECONDARY VIRGINITY. It could have been better if you keep it than giving it in your dating stage. It hurts when there is a post on social media which says, give one word for your ex-boyfriend and you see ladies insulting. It baffles me a lot. Dating is to learn how to become independent.

Even in the courtship stage, certain things are not accepted to be done. It is a promise to be married and not marriage. Know the difference. Even couples who have been vowed before God do break off. How much more just a mere dating. It's about time you say NO if sex is the only medium to prove my Love and use the door.

Young lady be confident in yourself and say NO to things that can cause you regret. There are factors to look at when dating, which includes the following;

1. Do you love the person? If yes, then what makes you think so?

2. Do you know him and what do you like and dislike about him or her. Can you handle the dislike?

3. Third thing to ask yourself is; are you ready or matured for a relationship? If yes, How?

4. Can you handle breakup when it fails?

5. Do you want to marry in the next two to at most three years? If yes? How do you intend keeping your date and being discipline with temptations?

Examine yourself about this before you enter into one. Young lady, don't date because you feel lonely. Don't date because you feel the gentleman is good looking. Don't date because he has been giving you attention. A young lady told me, 'My guy requested for my naked image’. I need not to tell you. Go and ask your father if he will request for your mother's naked image on his phone.

Another one told me, he is married now but he says he still love me. Funny....Wise up. It's about time this end. She committed suicide because of break up. Sad. Young lady,  you are multiple of human beings that will struggle to come out someday.

They appreciate you being valuable today so wait on the timetable concerning your Love status. One philosophy said: "if you educate a man, you educate an individual but if you educate a woman, you educate a whole nation". Everything tells how special you are young lady. Work on yourself and uphold that status of being a lady.

Thank you!!

#Getinspired #Getmotivated #Lifekeepscomingback

Writer: Annie~Joy
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