Afia Schwarzenegger's Marriage Suffered A Deficiency Of Love - Counselor Adofoli
Afia Schwarzenegger's marriage lacked love. It was founded on
personal interest, lust, like, fame, etc.
If you really love someone,
nothing can stop that; not a distance from Ghana to South Africa, not
deceit, betrayal etc. Each time you say you love someone, you are just
saying you accept the full package; the good and the bad, the beautiful
and the ugly.
You don't only accept but you also help them to
become a better version of themselves. It gets serious when you agree to
marry them and spend the rest of your life with them.
You cannot
know anyone within a day, month or year. It is a lifetime process.
Everyone is like a book, each day spent with them reveals a page of the
book. So when you decide to marry them, you are saying, you accept the
content of this book, and for the love you have for them, you will learn
and help them to overcome the bad pages and chapters.
This is
why you really get to know one better at the end of a relationship; at
least, that is the point you read the book to, so you can tell better.
It's therefore advisable not to rush, force or push into marriage. Take
time to study people, ask questions before you trust them with your
future.
I believe these two grown individuals know this. The man
in question knows the kind of woman he was going to marry. The woman who
is a queen of controversy, weird as she might be, also has her
beautiful and sweet side, and getting married to her was not scary for
him.
I am very sure he was not surprised to find her in bed with
another man, if that was true. As painful as such a betrayal is, there
is no need taking videos and pictures just to give to the lover's enemy
to leak to the public domain.
This is an act of childishness, not
what a man or husband who loves the wife will do. A husband covers his
wife's shame, clothes her. If he can't do that, the best option is to
leave. If they did have a child together would he have gone on to still
leak these pictures and video of his child's 'bad mother'? Love me, love
my dog. Did he truly accept the kids of the woman as his?
No one
takes revenge on loved ones. Taking revenge on your wife is like taking
revenge on yourself.
The two are supposed to be one. Jesus Christ is
married to the church, no matter how much we betray or hurt Him, He will
not sell us to the devil to destroy us, because he loves us.
Many at times, people don't know that their actions towards others best
describe they themselves. The words you use to insult others are the
best words that describe you. It is therefore needed for each and every
one of us to be careful with our words and actions in times of hurt.
Nobody has an easy marriage, which is one reason why marriage is not an
adventure for the immature. You have no idea what some couples went
through to build the great union they have today. Don't let anyone's
insult of your singleness force you into marriage when you are not
matured, strong or prepared for such a crazy journey.
For those
singles laughing at the downfall of their marriage and take delight in
sharing the naked pictures and videos, my advice to you is, never mock
anyone of a sickness you have not suffered before. They survived, you
might die.
This life is war; whilst you are praying to succeed,
others are praying for you to fail. Your happiness makes someone sad. So
instead of judging anyone, criticizing their life, laughing at them,
pause and say a prayer for them and ask God for grace for your own
journey ahead. We are all fighting unique wars.
In conclusion
"The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately
wicked. Who really knows how bad it is?" - Jeremiah 17:9 (NLT).
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