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Annie~Joy writes: Don't Hate The Child. #BeInspired!

"It was all love in the air when we met in senior secondary school. In the cause of it, we made love to each other and I got pregnant and when I informed him, he broke off from me. I didn't hear from him afterwards. Well I kept the pregnancy and delivered. Sometimes I feel like that is greatest mistake of my life. 

I shouldn't have met this guy even to think of making love with him. I see the baby each day and I see the photocopy of the father in him or her therefore all my reactions towards her are full of bitterness and hatred. I can't love her because she is the mistake of my life.” These are the words of the teenage mother. It's true in life that there are certain scars in as much as you treat it to make the scar heal, you continue to feel the pain. It becomes permanent which nothing can be done about it and that of the baby you gave birth to. 

Although it was something you didn't plan of yet it still occurred and you have to accept that fact. Don't hate the baby or the child because you feel it has ruined your journey but rather accept the child as your biggest lesson. A lesson of your life you have to come and accept it and love it. Though it was a blow to you and brought you shame. It didn't end your life after all, life still went on and is still is. See that child as a treasure you wished for just that it wasn't in the appropriate time. 

You still don't have any reason to hate that innocent child rather see yourself as the brave and strong mother who stood in shame and didn't abort the innocent baby but you gave it life. Think about it.

And did you know God listen to the prayers of a child more than any living soul on earth? Therefore; imagine if you keep showing bitterness towards that innocent child and he or she shed tears of sorrow and sadness in his or her heart, then how do you want God to bring blessings upon your way. Dear teenage mother, that child was never a mistake, therefore; learn how to love him, care for him and show him affection. Treat the child like your happiness depends on him or her. 

Do him or her no harm with the thoughts of it was a mistake and GOD in heaven who blessed you with him or her will honour. Be proud of yourself that you stood for your baby because someone aborted hers just because she couldn't have the confidence to fight for her baby. Somebody is also out there crying and taking all medicine just for a baby. How about that? I guess you will agree with me now if I say the child wasn't a mistake but rather he or she didn't come in the appropriate timing and it doesn't change anything. 

You fought for her 9months and brought forth her and you think you should hate him or her. Be the one to stand by your child’s side if the whole world will come against him. Be that caring and loving mother every child would wish for. DON'T HATE THE CHILD. 

Be the first good teacher the child will never forget. THE BABY, THE CHILD was never a mistake. Think about that.

Life, every man holds dear; but the dear man holds honor far more precious dear than life. (William Shakespeare) 

#Getinspired #Getmotivated #Lifekeepscomingback

Writer: Annie~Joy
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