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Lifestyle: Why You Should Never Marry A Slay Queen

You find them everywhere in churches, clubs, offices and on the streets. While you may be tempted to pursue a relationship with her, you may give it a second thought.

A slay queen is any lady who have an over bloated image of herself. They are narcissist by nature and believe the world revolves round them.  

Slay queens are by their very nature ruled and possessed by the materialistic things of this world. To them money is everything.

However slay queens comes with their own uniqueness. They seem the perfect wife because they possess all you require in a woman. The perfect bust or extra, good height and an ass to die for. You fantasize how you are going to devour her on bed and forever make her your sex object. It comes with a prize.

Divorce rate is high

Slay queens are more likely to seek divorce than other types of ladies because of their egotistical nature. 

They look beautiful but they can be quite unstable. They do not value the marriage as much as you and they only wants to get as much goodies as they can from the marriage. Hence at the slightest provocation they will seek a divorce. A man who marries a slay queen has a higher probability of a divorce.

They come with attitude

Attitude is everything. Slay queens have serious attitude problem that they do not realise. They can be nasty and abusive. They only respect their husbands as long as the money keeps rolling in. Take away the money and what you see is a mad woman ready to unleash terror on you.

They cannot be trusted

Trust a slay queen at your own peril. When you marry a slay queen you have to suspect and question her every moves. She is capable of things that would beat your imagination. Think your kids are yours? You need to be doubly sure with a slay queen. They are calculative, smart and always plotting the next move.

They are secretive to a fault

When you marry a wife you expect her to confide in you but with a slay queen you shouldn’t expect this. 

They keep everything to themselves. Some of their darkest secrets will never be found except by luck.

They are enemies to your family

Slay queens jealously guard their homes from family members. They want to enjoy all the wealth alone with their children because they know family members will seek for financial assistance. They will make your home hell for your siblings, parents and relatives. They will bark at you when you offer financial assistance to them to the extent that you will have to do it in secret.  

They don’t know how to manage

To slay queens the word management does not exist in their vocabulary. They erroneously believe management is due to lack rather than foresight. Hence you would realise you can barely save money. They want the most expensive schools for their kids even when they know you can’t afford it, they want to travel to Europe twice every year rather than committing the money into a building project. They also like giving money lavishing to people who are not family members to make them look good. A man who is trying to build a business might find it difficult due to his wives lavishness.

They are complain machine

I don’t need to say much here but slay queen are complain machines. They can complain for Africa. From the time you come in, the person you talked to, the way you greeted her, the money you gave her and just about everything.  They just like to nag alot. They are also unpredictable and like to throw a scene. This can be really embarrassing. If you are the gentle type you would eventually run away from your house.

Marrying a wife comes with a lot of discernment. Like they always say, “Look before you leap”. Marrying a wife is a battle own its own but marrying a slay queen may be the final straw. Not all slay queens are bad for marriage but most men who marry slay queens have got bad experiences, you may want to learn from their mistake. 



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