"My girlfriend is a world famous porn star who has sex with other men and women every day but I don't mind": Man says
An extraordinary boyfriend who is dating one of the world's biggest
porn stars has said he isn't bothered by her job and it hasn't affected
their relationship in any way. He went on to reveal what it's like
dating his woman.
Mike Adkins, 32, has been dating Allie Haze, 30, for the last four
years after being introduced by a mutual friend. Allie is the star of a
string of famous adult-movies - including Star Wars XXX: A Porn Parody
where she plays a more sexually adventurous version of Princess Leia.
Yet, in spite of her controversial job, Mike says he wasn't intimidated
the first time they had sex.
Allie has worked in the porn industry for more than 8 years and has
starred in over 350 porn films. Mike knows this and he doesn't mind,
neither does he pressure her to change her job. Most surprisingly, he
says doesn't feel jealous that Allie has sex with other men and women
every day. He also revealed that he has told his mum what Allie does for
a living.
Mike, who lives with Allie in Las Vegas, said: "I didn't feel
intimidated having sex with a porn star. I really didn't look at it that
way. I just look at her as a person. But yeah, she is definitely the
more adventurous of partners I've ever had. It doesn't bother me that
she's with other men as far as work. If it was something where she was
just like, 'I'm going out Friday night, going to hook up with some
people,' that would 100% bother me.
"There are times that she has been offered to do certain movies or
whatever and I am just not very comfortable. I mean, yeah, it's a
different job than being a receptionist or something, but at the end of
the day you can't base a relationship around each other's career."
Mike was not aware of Allie's career when they first met, and
although it came as quite a shock, he admits that he found it 'pretty
cool'. Mike has never been on set with Allie, he says whilst he caught
glimpses of her videos in the very early stages of their relationship,
he soon stopped watching them when things began to get more serious.
He said: "I don't watch her videos. Nothing against them I've just got her right beside me so I don't feel the need to."
Allie added: "Yeah when we first got together he didn't really
realise - like knowing I'm an adult film star is one thing, and then
knowing how popular I am and how active I am - he didn't know a lot of
that."
The couple claim that they avoid talking about what Allie has done on
set in detail - although she will occasionally use it to her advantage
by discussing her job when she returns home so as to get him turned on.
Allie said: "Definitely before I leave, Mike is always like, 'What
are you working on today?' and I'm like,'Oh, boy-girl, girl-girl'.
"When I come home from work, we don't necessarily talk about the
day. But it depends too, like as a woman and as a spouse, I know what
would turn him on. So yeah, maybe I come home and tell him stories to my
advantage to get some, sometimes. Depends on what the scene is. I know
what he likes to hear about. Maybe he gets annoyed with the fact that I
want to have sex all the time but other than that, I think we're pretty
good."
Mike admits that he was nervous when he had to tell his mother about Allie's profession not knowing how she would respond.
He said: "I called my mom and I left her a message and said, 'Hey,
I've actually been dating this girl and I've got to tell you
something'. My mom called me back and I was like, 'Yeah she's a porn
star' and my mom said, 'Oh my God! Thank God! I thought you were going
to tell me she was pregnant".
Allie has to get tested for potential STI's every 14 days. She says
she loves her job and chooses her film sex partners carefully. Most of
her porn partners are usually married to her colleagues. She said the
porn stars like to marry among themselves but she prefers to date
outside the industry.
"I choose my partners and most of them I work with are married with
co-workers of mine. I love my job. I'm very very lucky and super blessed
to have a career that I love going to," Allie said.
Mike said: "I love Allie very much, to the moon and back."
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