Okyeame Kwame celebrates wife on their 9th anniversary
Okyeame Kwame, real name Kwame Nsiah Apau and wife, Annica Nsiah Apau
are growing as a couple as they celebrate their wedding anniversary
after nine years.
As has been his norm during this part of the year, the rapper shares
these words to commemorate their Anni-versary.
Read it below …
Thirteen (13) years ago when I asked if you would marry me, what I
actually meant was if you would mummy me, be my friend in times of need,
warm my bed and heed to my emotional greed.
When I asked you to marry me, I needed a driver to increase my speed,
to nurture my seed and multiply my breed. When I said marry me, I just
needed someone to shield me from my insecurities, to be blind to my
impurities, understand my insanity, and legitimize my humanity. I didn’t
know that ‘marry me’ meant throwing my freedom to the dogs, and
realising that the woman is the boss; accepting that the man is the
horse to be ridden and whipped to stay on course.
When I asked you to marry me, I didn’t know I had to be a daddy to a
woman grown already, that I had to be friendly even when I’m angry, be
understanding at night when you say No ! Daddy!! When I asked you to
marry me, I didn’t know that the acceleration of our lives was going to
be in my hand, I didn’t know that our children will compete with the
same rehearsal time with the band.
When I said marry me, I didn’t know I had to constantly create your security, expect your criticism, compromise my expressionism and legitimize my own reputation through role modelism.
When I said marry me, I didn’t know I had to earn my freedom through
self-respect, lead the family through a Democratic process, and accept
feminine direction without opposition.
When I asked you to marry me, I didn’t expect to find mischief in an
Angel. When I said marry me, I expected a Messiah of a woman, not a
human woman with flaws, weaknesses, misguided passions, temporary
selfishness, an overprotective partner who is fallible just like me.
Like I said, all I wanted was to make legal the friend that I had found
in you, and no matter how sweet or painful, I love this friendship.
Thank you for marrying my troublesome self for nine years. Today, I
ask you to pleassssse marry me for 51 years more. Pleasssse, say yes!
Happy Anni-versary!!!
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